If you do choose to fight, here is how to bring winning to the next level

Winning is a multifaceted concept that encompasses a wide range of emotions, strategies, and outcomes.

Winning can be:

• authoritarian or democratic

It can be authoritarian, where a person imposes their will on the situation, or democratic, where the team works together towards a common goal.

• with preparation or instant 

It can be achieved with preparation or at a moment’s notice.

• conscious or manipulated

It can be a conscious effort or a manipulated tactic.

• misleading or growth-ignited

Sometimes winning can be misleading and driven by a need for immediate gratification, while other times it can be growth-ignited, leading to long-term success.

• chased after or delayed/postponed

Winning can be chased after relentlessly or delayed and postponed until the opportune moment for the next step arises.

• neglected or self-instructed

If you neglect standing up for yourself, you will ruin your image. You also risk to be outperformed by individuals who instruct themselves, analyzing past successes and failures.

• inspiring/ stimulating or poisoning

A successful win can either inspire and stimulate growth or poison relationships and cause harm.

• intense or easy-going

Some winning processes are intense and require full dedication, while others are more easy-going.

• discriminating or evolving

Discrimination towards certain individuals or groups is never acceptable, and a winning process should be evolving, taking everyone’s needs and interests into account.

• intuitive or instructed

Intuition is helpful in making decisions and an evidence of a lot of experience of a person in removing disputes. Proper instructions and analysis are essential for a beginner.

• fearful or liberating

Winning often instills fear and create pressure, but it can also be liberating and fulfilling.

• fulfilling or devastating

A winning process should lead to personal growth and pave the way for a better version of ourselves; not devastate and discourage us.

• enlightening or intrusive

Enlightenment is a critical component of winning; it teaches us valuable lessons that we can carry with us into future endeavors.

• disruptive or orienting

It can cause a temporary disruption but also helps us orient ourselves and redirect our efforts towards success.

• empowering or exhausting

Winning empowers us to strive for greatness, but it can also be an exhausting task.

• advocated or out of the blue

Advocacy for self and others is crucial in creating a winning process, but it should not come at the expense of others.

We should choose our fights carefully. Next time you choose your fight make sure your winning is about becoming more of yourself or a better version of yourself. Winning made right will require your dedication, preparation, and a democratic approach. It should also be growth-ignited, stimulating, fulfilling and leading to personal enlightenment.